This is a bit of a departure from previous 5 Things posts, but today I'm listing 5 things I've learned about relationships. I almost didn't post this because I generally shy away from posts that are overly personal or revealing, but I really wanted to do this. I know this list isn't perfect and I'm so excited to learn more and fall even more in love.
1. I've learned that not every problem is a crisis. Sometimes you need to relax and do something else for a while until you're in a better mood to talk.
2. It's nice to have different interests. Don't tell Jordan this, but one of my favorite things is when we're driving and he sees some piece of machinery, he tells me all about it and how it works. Granted, most of what he says doesn't mean much to me because I'm clueless when it comes to machines, but I'm always so impressed by how smart and practical he is. Likewise, I tell him about new books I read that he wouldn't otherwise care about or have time to read. He knows about as much as I do about Greg Mortenson's books just because I tell him all about them.
3. Things won't be perfect all the time and that's OK. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with the relationship.
4. The little things truly are what mean the most. Sweet, unexpected, thoughtful gifts, Friday nights spent snuggled up on the couch watching movies together, calls just to make sure you made it home safely after a long drive...those are the things you remember.
5. There is never a need to rush into anything. Take your time, learn all about yourself and your partner at your own speed. I remember hearing this quote a few years ago and I think it's perfect for all stages of a relationship, not just marriage:
"You'll never hear someone say 'I wish I got married sooner.'"
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